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Stepping Off the Relationship Escalator: Uncommon Love and Life (English Edition) van [Gahran, Amy]
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Love is not one-size-fits-all. Yet often, people assume that all healthy or serious intimate relationships must follow same trajectory. Fortunately, there are plenty of options.

The “Relationship Escalator” is the bundle of social conventions for intimate relationships: monogamy, living together and much more, ideally until death do you part. If you wish to explore a different way of loving, it’s not always obvious what your options are, or where those paths might lead.

Many people have stepped off the Relationship Escalator, to live and love in uncommon ways. In 2013-14, journalist Amy Gahran surveyed 1500 people about their unconventional intimate relationships: how those relationships work, how they feel, and why these people stepped off the Escalator. Participants shared moving, in-depth personal stories and insights. Over 330 individuals are quoted directly in this book (with permission).

"Stepping Off the Relationship Escalator" explores how unconventional relationships might look and work differently from traditional relationships. Gahran identifies five main ways that intimate partners can step off the traditional Relationship Escalator.

Off the Escalator, intimate relationships might be:
- Nonmonogamous: Sexual/romantic nonexclusivity, with all-around informed consent. Polyamory, swinging, monogamish relationships and more.
- Highly autonomous: Partners choose to not live together or otherwise prioritize their individuality over couplehood.
- Egalitarian: Not defaulting to giving one partner, or romantic/sexual partners in general, top priority.
- Nonsexual: Asexual people, and others, enjoy deeply intimate, committed relationships that never include a sexual connection.
- Fluid or discontinuous: Sometimes intimacy is pause/play, or significantly shifts form, without a breakup or ending.

This book aims to foster awareness and acceptance of relationship choice; to empower people to speak up for what they might want and find more ways to let love flourish. To not assume that love must look a particular way for it to be valuable and meaningful. At a point in history when divisiveness can seem overwhelming, finding more ways to connect with love can help us sustaining each other through tense times.

This book is the first in a series. At least two more Off the Escalator books are currently in production:
- (2017) What’s It Like Off the Escalator? 10 Common Questions About Unconventional Relationships
- (2018) Off the Escalator, in the Closet: Navigating Stigma Against Unconventional Relationships

More information about this ongoing project: OffEscalator.com

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  • Editie: Kindle-editie
  • Bestandsgrootte: 2468 KB
  • Printlengte: 395 pagina's
  • Uitgever: Off the Escalator Enterprises (3 februari 2017)
  • Verkocht door: Amazon Media EU S.à r.l.
  • Taal: Engels
  • ASIN: B01MRDI7JC
  • Tekst-naar-spraak: Ingeschakeld
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  • Plaats op Amazon-bestsellerlijst: #66.284 Betaald in Kindle Store (Top 100 betaald in Kindle Store bekijken)
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5.0 van 5 sterren Traditionally, "The only way to win a wedding is for someone to die." 28 februari 2017
door Burton Kent - Gepubliceerd op Amazon.com
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Wow. Society's traditional view of relationships is the "Relationship Escalator", where you are inevitably propelled into more and more serious stages of relationships. Such as Dating/Getting Romantic > Exclusively Dating > Sexually Intimate > Moving in Together > Marriage > Kids > Happily Ever After. If you omit to move up the escalator, stay at the same level, or god forbid, go backwards, your relationship is viewed as if you fell down the stairs.

As someone in the book says, "The only way to win a wedding is for someone to die." That's the traditional view. This book is an exploration of untraditional relationships.

The "Relationship Escalator" is so ingrained in society that most people never realize there's any other way. At all steps there are options:
- Dating/getting romantic - some people are aromantic. They're affectionate but don't fall in love.
- Exclusively dating - Polyamory means multiple loves. Monogamy isn't mandatory. Some people swing.
- Sexually Intimate - Some people are asexual. They can be extremely affectionate (or not) but just don't have sex. Or be celibate.
- Move In Together - Some people find their relationships are better if they don't "nest" together.
- Marriage - Some people don't want to get married, even if they act like they are.
- Kids - Some people don't want to have kids, others will happily coparent kids that aren't theirs. Sometimes kids can have a half dozen parents, and it works great!
- Happily Ever After - Just because a relationship ends it's not a failure. Some people are happier being friends with their exes than they were when being involved.

I'm leaving out a lot - you'll have to read the book. Even if you're not interested in exploring alternative approaches to relationships, you may like this book. It's interesting to learn the choices people make and what works for them. It may be something you would never have thought of. If you are interested in alternative approaches, you will likely get something out of this book, if only a way to explain why you would choose differently from society's standard.
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5.0 van 5 sterren Like walking through a landmine 19 maart 2017
door za - Gepubliceerd op Amazon.com
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Still slowly working through it. Like walking through a landmine. Fortunately this book is logical, calm, and totally 1000% nonjudgmental while discussing various levels of societal privilege. Super valuable if you're in the middle of an identity transformation or relationship of ANY kind. Yep, even asexual-solo poly-distance relationships (for example) or other relationships/identities that could be considered 'nebulous' are respected as existing, and real.
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5.0 van 5 sterren Read this, new or experienced with non monogamy 10 maart 2017
door Melissa - Gepubliceerd op Amazon.com
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I've been practicing poly for 3+ years now and still benefitted from reading this book. It brings in academic as well as anectodal resources, and made me understand the strict trappings of the monogamous-favoring society we live in. While I had obviously considered these issues before, Amy Gahran really digs into all the different styles of non monogamy and the struggles (and joys!) of adapting that lifestyle. I'd really recommend this to anyone looking outside of monogamy.
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5.0 van 5 sterren Awesome look into stepping off the escalator 18 februari 2017
door 3prongattack - Gepubliceerd op Amazon.com
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A terrific view into non-traditional relationships. Very thoughtful and respectful of all types of configurations. Perfect read for anyone who's tired of following the same script, one size fits all relationship model we're all spoon fed since the childhood.
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5.0 van 5 sterren Great information, very professionally researched 17 februari 2017
door Jenn R - Gepubliceerd op Amazon.com
This is a MUST HAVE for anyone who has ever been frustrated by the cookie cutter "one day my prince will come" expectations of relationships.

Great information, very professionally researched, and easily accessible to the every day reader in practical ways: this book will broaden your perspective on what relationships can be.